Spare us the ‘Sponsor’ Madness in 2017





Listen up girls, this is about those guys we never see on social media. We only see their naked efforts through your smiles inside flashy cars and hotel rooms.  

The sponsor debate was huge in 2016, this madness is likely to pour itself into 2017. I see people glorifying the sponsor culture, today it is quickly becoming okay to see a 20s campus girl hanging out with a guy twice her age. Do not get me wrong, love knows no age. Anyone can date anyone regardless of the age gap -that is love and then you have yourself a partner not a sponsor.

When you are in bed with someone purely for monetary or material gain you are a prostitute, you remain a prostitute, there is no better word for that. Prostitution is not limited to the street at night, those are girls who have accepted the reality and have nothing to hide. What makes you, the sponsor type of a chic twice dangerous is that you live a double life. A life of a well off, well natured girl. A church going girl who is a darling to the folks. The other dark side is that you love quick cash, you see your body as an asset. You find justification to sleep with a fifty something old man who breathes like an asthmatic frog just for the cash.

Let’s face it, there a lot to worry about when the guy who used to bully your dad in high school today bullies you in bed. There is a lot to worry when girls today see nothing wrong to be in bed with a guy with a family waiting for him at home. An upright society exist where there are morals that have to be observed. Religion, laws and traditions exist to ensure a society’s moral wellbeing. So don’t ever fool yourself that it is okay to have sex for money.

There is nothing to be proud of to be with someone for the cash, there are women who have done it the right way. It is possible to be successful without having a man sweating on top of you.

 Have a cheerful 2017.


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